Launching the “Saving LBD” project展開「拯救LBD」計畫启动“拯救LBD”项目
Launched a “Saving Little Brother Dragon (LBD)” project in a farmer’s village. During a visit to BigBall supporters in Jilin province, James met this intellectually challenged young man, nicknamed Little Brother Dragon (小龙哥)by his family. He is a small built young man who has suffered from brain damage since childhood due to eating his parent’s diabetic medicine as candy. His father who was a decent and honest farmer passed away a couple of years ago after a tragic accident involving his farm equipment. His mother is a loving lady who is now working odd farm jobs to care for this son while recovering from the grief of her husband’s passing. This family is in need of help particularly due to the behavior problems from Little Brother Dragon (LBD) who is apparently in a downward spiral. He started to lie and steal liquor from his family and family friends to get drunk. In early August, he drank too much of the stolen liquor and also took his mother’s medicine to escape from his mental hell. He got so sick and tried to induce vomiting by poking his own throat with a tree branch which caused bleeding from his esophagus and had to be hospitalized with blood transfusion. This also happened twice before during the last 2 years and his bad behavior has caused so much misery to his mother that all her relatives became very angry that they used harsh language and physical punishment at this young man as James observed during hospital visits. With the approval from the BECHA Board, a proposal was made to LBD’s family to give him a last chance to climb out of his vicious cycle by using positive reinforcement to reward him for good behavior. A detailed plan was approved by his family and also supported by the village leaders. The goal is to provide positive energy in correcting his behavior problems by giving him small cash rewards (to reduce his need to steal from others) for good behavior and to fine him for bad behaviors. A notebook is used to document his behavior daily and a nightly review is conducted by his mother. Meanwhile, the village leaders are trying to find people who can teach him how to make handicrafts, such as weaving baskets, to be purchased by BigBall for potential exhibitions in the future. Initial results during the 1st month have been encouraging with LBD’s behavior significantly improved (over 90% of days without any bad behavior while helping his mother with farm work and he has also quit drinking alcohols to save money). We continue to pray for LBD in his success to gain self-respect/confidence and to live a happier life.
在一個農村發起「拯救小龍哥」計畫。唐宗英在吉林省探訪碧波支持者期間,認識了這位智能障礙的年輕人,家人給他取了小名叫「小龍哥」。他身材瘦小,小時候把父母的糖尿病藥當糖果吃,從此腦部受損。他的父親是一位正直老實的農民,幾年前因農機意外不幸過世。他的母親是一位慈愛的婦人,一面走出喪夫之痛,一面靠打零星農活照顧這個兒子。這個家庭亟需幫助,特別是因為小龍哥的行為問題,他的狀況顯然每況愈下。他開始說謊,並偷家人和親友的酒來喝醉。八月初,他喝了太多偷來的酒,又吃了母親的藥,想逃離內心的煎熬。他病得很重,還拿樹枝戳自己的喉嚨催吐,導致食道出血,只得住院輸血。過去兩年裡這種事已經發生過兩次,他的惡劣行為讓母親痛苦不堪,親戚們都非常憤怒;唐宗英到醫院探望時,就看到他們對這個年輕人惡言相向,甚至動手體罰。經BECHA董事會同意,我們向小龍哥的家人提出一個方案,給他最後一次機會,以正向強化的方式獎勵他的良好行為,幫助他跳出惡性循環。詳細計畫獲得他家人同意,也得到村幹部的支持。目標是以正面的力量矯正他的行為問題:表現良好時給予小額現金獎勵(以減少他偷別人東西的需求),表現不好時則罰款。每天用一本筆記本記錄他的行為,每晚由母親檢討。同時,村幹部正設法找人教他做手工藝品,例如編籃子,由碧波收購,將來或可用於展覽。第一個月的初步成果令人鼓舞,小龍哥的行為明顯改善(超過九成的日子沒有任何不良行為,還幫母親做農活,並且為了存錢而戒了酒)。我們會繼續為小龍哥祈禱,願他成功重拾自尊與自信,過更快樂的生活。
在一个农村发起“拯救小龙哥”项目。唐宗英在吉林省探访碧波支持者期间,认识了这位智力障碍的年轻人,家人给他取了小名叫“小龙哥”。他身材瘦小,小时候把父母的糖尿病药当糖果吃,从此脑部受损。他的父亲是一位正直老实的农民,几年前因农机事故不幸去世。他的母亲是一位慈爱的妇女,一边走出丧夫之痛,一边靠打零散农活照顾这个儿子。这个家庭急需帮助,特别是因为小龙哥的行为问题,他的状况显然每况愈下。他开始说谎,并偷家人和亲友的酒来喝醉。八月初,他喝了太多偷来的酒,又吃了母亲的药,想逃离内心的煎熬。他病得很重,还拿树枝戳自己的喉咙催吐,导致食道出血,只得住院输血。过去两年里这种事已经发生过两次,他的恶劣行为让母亲痛苦不堪,亲戚们都非常愤怒;唐宗英到医院探望时,就看到他们对这个年轻人恶语相向,甚至动手体罚。经BECHA董事会同意,我们向小龙哥的家人提出一个方案,给他最后一次机会,以正向强化的方式奖励他的良好行为,帮助他跳出恶性循环。详细计划获得他家人同意,也得到村干部的支持。目标是以正面的力量矫正他的行为问题:表现良好时给予小额现金奖励(以减少他偷别人东西的需求),表现不好时则罚款。每天用一个笔记本记录他的行为,每晚由母亲进行回顾。同时,村干部正设法找人教他做手工艺品,例如编篮子,由碧波收购,将来或可用于展览。第一个月的初步成果令人鼓舞,小龙哥的行为明显改善(超过九成的日子没有任何不良行为,还帮母亲干农活,并且为了攒钱而戒了酒)。我们会继续为小龙哥祈祷,愿他成功重拾自尊与自信,过上更快乐的生活。